Identity — Adoption - Tuesday
TODAY’S VERSE
Ephesians 1:4–6
Even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love he predestined us for adoption to himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved. (ESV)
Yesterday, we asked, “Who am I?” Today, let’s look at a different question: “Whose am I?”
Last year, I learned a parenting lesson I’ll never forget. My wife and I have always told our kids they can come to us with anything. We’ll listen, guide, support, and when needed, discipline them out of love (Ephesians 6:4).
My son was in third grade. He’s bright and usually did well in school, so when he brought home a failed math test, I couldn’t understand what had happened. I started pressing him before I really listened, and he began to cry. I could see that he knew he’d disappointed me, and I realized I hadn’t given him the chance to explain. And because I handled the moment poorly, it devastated both of us.
I want to be clear: I love my little boy fiercely. I’d die for him, and I’d fight to protect him. The truth is, the test may have changed his grade, but it didn’t change who he was to me. I wish my response had made my love unmistakably clear, but it didn’t at that moment.
That’s why Jesus’ story in Luke 15 feels personal to me. The younger son comes home expecting to be treated like a servant. The older son stays home but talks as if his years of service should earn him a celebration. As Scott pointed out in the sermon, both sons have lost sight of their place in the family. The father goes out to both. He welcomes the younger son home and tells the older one, “Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours” (Luke 15:31). Scott referred to him as the Prodigal Father — lavish and excessive in his love and grace.
My son’s failed test wasn’t the same as the younger son’s rebellion. But that moment helped me see how painful it is when a child feels defined by failure instead of secure in his father’s love. I’m thankful God’s welcome is more perfect than mine. Through Jesus, He doesn’t just tell us to come home; He receives us as His children (Ephesians 1:4–6).
APPLICATION
When you fail, what’s your typical response? Do you run from God? Do you still try to earn His approval? What would change in your life if you lived as someone who already belongs to the Father? Read Ephesians 1:4-6, listen to Run to the Father, and ask God to help you run to Him when you fall short.
PRAYER
Father, thank You for Your Son, Jesus. Thank You for sending Him on a rescue mission so that I could repent and come home. Thank You for receiving me as Your child. I know I am Yours. I know I am loved. Help me to always remember that. Finally, help me receive Your grace and show others the patient, loving welcome I have received from You. In Jesus’ name, amen.